(First appeared in Horoscope.com)
Have you ever planned a road trip? Most of us have, and so we know that the basic things we need to know are 1) where we’re starting from; 2) where we want to end up; and 3) the means, plus a plan or directions to get us there.
Moving toward Intuitive Success works the exact same way. It starts with a personal inventory. Where are you right now?
Because you can’t get where you’re going if you don’t know where you are.
Imagine wanting to get to Chicago, but not knowing if you’re in New York or California. That would be a problem. It’s the same in life: In order to get where we’re going next, we have to have a clear idea of where we are in this moment. We have to be able to plug in the right coordinates.
Understanding where you are can be uber simple. It doesn’t take a 30-page personal assessment. All that’s needed is a picture. Yes, an actual physical picture.
In my book i describe this starting point as “taking your life pictures.” The idea is to grab a real camera (you probably don’t want some of these in ‘the cloud’) and take some pictures. If you don’t have a camera, you can get a disposable one and have them developed just for this (that’s still a thing, right?).
Once you have your camera, you’ll want to take pictures of any area of your life that you want. Say your body is your focus to get started. Get naked and take the picture. Then write a caption under that — one sentence that describes how you feel in your body right now.
That’s all you need. Now you know where you’re starting from. This is simple. It’s immediate. And it speaks volumes.
Now, if you’re not happy with where you are with your body (or your finances, romantic relationships, etc.), remember that for the moment you’re just getting clear. See if you can be as objective about it as saying, “I’m in New York or I’m in LA.”
If it helps, you can also think of it like an experiment, a school project that’s just helping you move more toward what you want.
Here are the areas of your life you might want to assess:
- Physical: Get naked
- Social: Grab a recent pic of you with your friends
- Love: Take a picture with your partner, or alone if you’re not currently in a romantic relationship
- Financial: Open your wallet or take out your latest bank statement and snap a shot
- Purpose/Career: Take a selfie at your desk, or a photo of a recent project
- Home/Environment: Capture a messy closet or your favorite nook in your house
- Spirituality/Faith: Take a snapshot of an inspiring passage from a book or your favorite element in nature that illustrates your relationship to God or the Universe
And remember to add a caption to each photo to describe the current status of that area in life.
To start it’s sufficient to choose 1- 3 areas where you’d like to dedicate you focus. For example, personal finances was a big one for me for a while in my life. When the conversation would turn to numbers, I would completely check out. I knew this wasn’t sustainable, because I’m a business owner and I have a family to co-support. But the neural pathways responsible for my reactions to finances would automatically shoot me down that road. In this case my picture could have also been my caption, and it looked like this.
That’s all I needed to see that I wasn’t where I wanted to be… YET.
Life is a non-linear process and you may have to circle back to the ‘picture-taking’ multiple times as you continue to grow and evolve in the various areas of your life. You can use it as a simple framework that can help point out what still needs your attention.
In next month’s Intuitive Success article, we’re going to look at figuring out where you want to go from here — the next destination on your life map.
Until then, give this picture-taking a shot and let me know in the comments which pictures you choose to take, or send me one!